10 Things I Hear Because I Travel to Italy

Ladies and gents, it is time I told you what I get to hear because I travel to Italy so often. These are just random questions/judgements by friends, strangers, acquaintances and sometimes even family! This post is a mix of everything I’ve heard from 2013 (and I keep hearing) until now….It is an irony, a rant, a jeer, a truth, a laugh, a sarcasm, a satire…. But it is my life now!
A little introduction of me.!!

I traveled to Italy with a friend in 2013 and completely fell in love. I barely had any understanding of the Italian culture and my knowledge was unfortunately only limited to pizza and pasta. After returning from my first travel to Italy, I felt something missing from my life. There was an inkling to return to Italy every few months. I felt a connection so deep and difficult to explain, that it sometimes made me restless. So I kept returning to explore the country and connect with its people. This eventually also pushed me to learn the Italian language.

To be honest, ever since the time I returned to Italy, people used to speak behind my back. They called me obsessed, crazy and stupid because I kept going to the same place. Some were brazen enough to say that I was wasting money. (Excuse me, it was my money!!)
It was at first very hard to face it. Living in the prying Indian society it got harder. Over the course of time I realized I had to do what I had to do. Sorry for being dramatic but it is what it is. So I had to put my foot down and do what I loved!
I continued traveling to Italy for the love of the land and it’s people.
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Things I Hear Because I Travel to Italy
I just wanted to share some of the most ridiculous things people said to me because of my Italian sojourns. Right from my boss to my closest friends and relatives:

1. How can you afford a trip every year??

This is one of the most common of all questions. Initially on my first two trips, I traveled with my own money. At that time, my blog was new and I had little or no idea on how to take it further. However, with each passing trip, I found the confidence to connect, ask and meet. I saved a lot of my travel costs in this regard. This is the simplest answer to this incessant question! I could so I did!

 

2. You are wasting your money by going to the same place every year!

I don’t understand why people say this, it is a constant query I get. But I simply reply back that no kind of travel is waste and I also remember that I visit my village every year but no one counts that as a waste of time or money.

 

3. Is Italy the only country you have visited??

When people ask me this question, I take a deep breath 🙂

 

4. I’m so jealous of you because your husband “lets you travel”??

Another common question I keep getting is that my partner has been very compromising and easy on me because I travel solo. The fact that people even say this shows their true thinking. All I can say is that I am grateful to have found a partner who understands my love and passion and lets me be ME! My partner and I are two individuals and we don’t need anyone’s permission to travel alone.

5. Are you going to settle in Italy??

As much as I love Italy, I have no plans of settling in there at this point.

6. If you visit other countries, you will forget Italy!!

Oh why do I hear this!! Why would I ever want to forget Italy….! This country has been a life savior for me. It triggered something immensely deep inside of me. So why oh why would I compare two different nations and forget Italy??

7. A friend went to Venice and thought it was just okay. You like it??

This question makes me wonder about people in general. They text or email to say that they went to Italy and thought Rome was crowded or Venice was costly as opposed to what I blog. I understand people can have varying opinions but by proving this point, my thoughts on Italy won’t change and neither will I start a blog on things I dislike about Italy. I should also tell you that I do see the bad side of the country but I prefer to keep that aside.

8. Being an Indian, why don’t you write on India??

……Because my nationality is Indian I shouldn’t have to prove my love for my country by starting a blog on India! I love my country very much but I am very happy having a blog on Italy. It’s a new culture, a new language and new people.

9. You need to open your mind and travel elsewhere!

India, Slovenia, Austria, Spain, Hungary. Works?? Okay then!

10. Can you help me plan my trip to Italy?? Oh you charge a fee?? It should be free.

No words to this!

 

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39 thoughts on “10 Things I Hear Because I Travel to Italy

  1. The same thing with me and London:) why do you need to visit it so many times, how can you afford it, why does your husband let you go alone… And I say.. A love is a love.. No need to explain myself to anyone.. 😉

  2. So many negative comments… sometimes people are envious that another person seems fearless and not a creature of comfort, so they make these kind of comments. That is when it is time for a new set of friends who have similar interests. Also, I would say, “Here’s the good thing about Life, we can all do what makes us HAPPY! You can stay home and I’ll continue to explore Italy!”…. Then say, “MORE COFFEE?” with a HUGE SMILE.

    1. Absolutely. But they aren’t only my friends! Acquaintances family are more troublesome. Agree 😊😂

  3. Part of why I love your blog so much is because your love of Italy shines through in every post. I love Italy as much as you, and plan to return. Yes, there are other places I could go, and I’ve been fortunate to have visited many others, but Italy calls to my soul. It does your too, it would seem. So stick with Italy and ignore the naysayers.

    1. Absolutely 🙂 thank you for saying those beautiful words 🤗 I’m grateful for people like you .. !

  4. It just happens that a place steal our heart more than other ones. Many times we don’t know why. I can only say that I’m happy you found all the beauty in my country. And…keep on searching!

  5. People make such ignorant comments. They just don’t know what they are missing!

    I totally get you on the Italophilia- since my first visit aged 18 when I worked as an au pair for 7 months, I’ve returned many times to different parts as it’s such a diverse country.
    I’m even writing a book right now about the style and beauty of Italian women as I found them so influential 😊

    1. Seriously. It’s about judging all the time. I am excited to hear more about your book 🙂 They are very influential.

  6. “You are wasting your money by going to the same place every year!”
    If you go just once in a location, people tell you that you know “too little” to write about it. If you go more than once, they tell you that you’re wasting your money. Lol, people are never happy, seriously! They have always to complain about something!

    I won’t comment on that thing about the partner “allowing” the woman to travel…so sad, really, that according to people a woman has still to ask “for permission” in 2018.

    Keep doing what you are doing, Ishita! 💪

    1. Exactly. You are so right!! They are never happy and always judgmental and I know a lot of us who write about Italy face it, because we go to Italy every year. It seems we aren’t opening our mind but closing it even more… Thank you cara.

  7. We chose Italy when we decided to buy a place overseas. I like the language, the people, the food and I think Italy has more beautiful things per square inch than anywhere else. We do use it as a base to travel to other countries, but there is so much to see and do in Italy that it keeps us busy for several months every year. Buying a house in Italy is the best thing we have ever done, it has opened up a whole other world for us.

  8. I really like this post 🙂 I get a lot of the same questions every day. While not specific to Italy they’re still very assuming questions that don’t take into account everything about having a passion, or interest beyond what you’re used to. Thanks!

  9. that was a great blog and I like the fact that you do your own thing regardless of what others say, I am from Sri Lanka and luckily I live in NY and have been here for about 50 years and it is easier for me to be free of peer pressure but many times I cave but you are strong! veryy admirable!

  10. I traveled to Italy the first time in 1988 and have returned often with different people. It is always new and exciting! I cannot wait to see what I had to my “kitchen” collection on my trip to Umbria in May.

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